When life takes a different turn to what you had planned, you will sometimes find it difficult to bounce back. Your mind starts to wonder ‘why is this happening’ especially if this situation had happened previously.
You fail to recognize that these are experiences, that failure is life’s way of saying you need to pay attention to certain things e.g improve your skills, your attitude or some other aspect of your life.
The best way to bounce back is to see things for what it is.
So you lost your job, but you did not like the job in the first place. When you got the job opportunity instead of starting off observing the environment and learning all you can, you became obsessed with pleasing people. You got involved in the office politics and now you drag yourself to get up to go to the office. You now need to start over. Find a job that you are passionate about. Something, that at the end of the day you feel a sense of accomplishment. Observation and learning is key in the probationary stage. Do not rush to please the boss or manager, and be careful of people who are too nice to you. The knowledge you acquire from observing and learning will move you quickly through the ranks.
If you were bypassed for a position take this opportunity to re-brand yourself. Have a documented approach to your re-branding. Find ways to develop yourself for the position you want. Get a Life Coach and one or two mentors. Add new circles of influence. Review your dress code. Lose or put on weight if you have to.
If you are trying to bounce back from a relationship realize that there is no love lost. You were always loved and will always be loved. You cannot love someone for whatever number of years and then say I no longer love you. Was that really true love in the first place? Find a Life Coach and transform yourself. Join new groups. Find your true purpose. The more you achieve celebrate your achievements.
You have to be truly committed to transforming. Some people may want to take the easy way out, but know this you must put effort into anything you want to achieve.
Bouncing back is like being on a trampoline the lower you fall the higher you get back up.
The best way to bounce back is to see things as they are, observe and learn and use this knowledge to transform yourself and guide you to the next stage of your life.
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